Weddingbee bios

On to how we met....

I was doin Instructor Training @ a beauty school about 2 years ago or so and one of the girls had a seizer and we had to call 911. Well the fire dept is only two blocks from the school so we would see the guys drive by all the time & when they were out to lunch in downtown there. So in rushes these 3 fireman on the call  & they help her and save the day and all that good stuff & here is this really tall fireman talking to me trying to ask me some questions about what happened and who she was all this etc etc and all I can do is smile & look at those green eyes & try to answer his questions. Well I guess it was somewhat of an alkward situation because then he starts smiling & (he has the most wonderful smile where he smiles mainly just on one side and the cutest little dimple pops up) Anyways that was that they leave.....

Well I can't stop thinking about this person that I didn't even know. Well over the next few months we seem to bump into each other or see each other in passing all over downtown and we would kinda smile & make small talk  flirt a little and go on  our way. After a while more when I see he is not going to ask  I finally get up the nerve to ask him for his number. He tells me he can't give me his but asks me for mine. He texts me severals times over next few weeks & we talk on the phone a few times ... all just casual get to know you type stuff. We were becoming very good friends. Then he drops the bomb, that because of his girlfriend that it is probably best that we dont talk anymore . I was dissapointed but understood.

I guess about 8 months or so passed by and I had only talked to Andy a couple of times in passing.(He is single now) He then adds me to myspace & we email through myspace a few times & text a few times while I am at the beach (which was right after he added me) Then I guess we started calling each other the week after that. I had told Andy that I just wanted to be friends but it didnt take long for feelings to start forming & feelings to start being hidden. I didn't think I was ready for a relationship or that I had time for one. I didn't want to get hurt or dissapointed again.

It was actually August 5th  that I finally let Andy  take me on an "Official Date" on the way home that night he was involved in a really bad car accident that put him off his feet for 3 weeks & out of work for 2 months. Since that moment he called me and told me about it and that he was heading to the hospital it scared me. Not only did I fear for him & his well being. I feared of loosing him before I even had him. I feared of him never knowing how i truely felt. I actually met his Parents and His brother there in the hospital. That was the first time I held his hand. He sat there drugged up and I know in a tremendous amount of pain and all he could do was Smile and look at me. It was that night I first kissed him (only beside the lips on the cheek). That next day I took him dinner and went to visit him and we snuggled and watched movies and played games & this is how it went for the next month.

There has not been a day since then that we have not seen each other. My daughter (who i actually never let meet a man i dated before Andy) Instantly fell in love with him to ....a couple weeks after they met he had to pick her up sick one day from school for me because I could not possibly and I couldnt find anyone else. She spent the entire day & most of the evening with him and did not want to go home, She asked if we could spend the night & we did a night or two ... then she told me she never wanted to leave and he asked us to move in. When we are not at work we spend every moment together. He is so kinda and generous to me and My daughter. He is a wonderful  father figure in her  life. He is her other daddy in her eyes, he does more for her than I would ever imagine he would.I honestly can not remember a time in my life that I was so happy or life was so easy. I can say the same thing about my little girl Madison as well.

I feel so lucky to have him in our lives. I think it is so funny because even though he still has pain from the injuries he substained, He still to this day says that August 5th was the best day of his life.