- 4 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
I prayed and waited 4 years before I met my FI. During this time I decided to become celibate and I would not settle no matter what. I joined a website due to my daughter telling me that Jesus is not going to send a man to the front door.
So I joined a website and got flirts, risque emails, and was becoming frustrated at the lack of respect these idiots were showing me. Well, long story short I noticed this man had been viewing my profile (4 times) and I was begining to feel as though I was in a fish bowl. So I decided to be polite and not just block him (I went on the website to close my account that day).
I sent him an email introducing myself and to my surprise he responded right away as I was in the process of closing my account. I mentioned in my email that I noticed he viewed my profile and was not sure if you felt comfortable enough to send me a message.
His response said “you are right I was afraid to send you a message because I cant believe someone so beautiful is on this website”. He assumed that I was using the website to amuse myself because I was bored.
Fast forward to emailing each other back and forth for the entire day. I suggested we move our conversation to yahoo and we chatted and got to know each other better. Our first real conversation consist of everything I had prayed for it was as if he was in the room listening to me as I prayed to Jesus Christ. I was holding back telling him how I feel because I was afraid of getting my feelings hurt and asking Jesus Christ is he for REAL? Am I dreaming?He said he loved me way before he met me and had to wait for at least 2wks to tell me he loved me because he didnt want to scare me off.
Come to find out he has been celibate for 3 years because he would not settle and he said he knew I was the one he was destine to be with within our first conversation. He knew what he prayed for and he thanked Jesus Christ for answering his prayers because everything he prayed for from his future wife I said to him in our conversation.
We both agreed to remain celibate until our wedding day December 2013.
How I know it is Jesus Christ? Talk about being blessed my birthday is July 23rd and his is July 24th. Enough said…:)
EDIT: We had to postpone our wedding because his tour was extended so we are waiting for the new date.
UPDATE: We have a new date so now I am planning again! 🙂