I I met the man of my dreams at a local bar that one of my good friends owned. I don't want to sound like a drunk or anything but that bar brought me through a lot of stuff. I had made friends with almost everyone there so going there was like a comfort zone for me.( Plus I babysitted the owners kids.) Well at the time I was dating this guy that lived an hour away from me. We went to a wedding of one of my friends. Needless to say we ditched out because we weren't having any fun. We went to the bar.. Kind of weird but my boyfriend at the time was playing pool with this girl for over 4 hours while I just sat there. I sat by myself and drinking my drinks. A couple of days later my boyfriend announced to me that he had gotten another girl pregnant and he wanted to go back with her... so of course I was furious and went up to the bar! The girl that had been playing pool with my ex was there and she told the guy that she was with, to buy me a drink. He finally did. He came over and started talking to me. Turns out he was a bouncer, a bartender and a cook there. My apartment was just across the street and I enjoyed this man's company so I wanted to seek more of it. I went to the bar with some of my friends and the very first thing he said "Can I swim inside of you?" Omg... wtf...? I know sounds weird but I was just so shocked he would say something like that. I spent several hours with him bouncing... when no one was t here he would come over and play quarters. We played quarters one night for 4 hours while his ex wife (the girl th at told him to buy me a drink) was there. A few days later, we went on our first floating trip which was the start of an amazing jouney. At the time my roomate asked him to move in because he didn't have a place to stay.... we have been inseperable ever since!!!!!! I wouldn't trade our relationship or friendship for anything in the world!!!!
Wow, goodbye to good rubbish and glad that situtaion led you to the man you love and loves you completely! I was dating someone else when I met my fiance (at a bar as well!) although we didnt date until after the breakup, I like to think the boneheaded ex led me to my happy ever after :>
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